Behavior In the School
It is amazing to me how much behavior in schools have increased over the years. I remember when I went to elementary school and hanging out with everyone at school. I don't remember any huge fights, kids constantly getting sent to the office, or kids being allowed to do what they wanted in the classroom "just so they aren't interrupting others. These days, I consistently see the same 10 kids in the office EVERYDAY!!! I consistently see kids staying at school after hitting, kicking, or biting someone. I hear kids screaming or yelling at teachers. To me, this is amazing and uncalled for and SHOULD NOT be tolerated for other students and teachers sakes. It is mentally stressful for all involved.
I have thought a lot on this topic for quite some time now. My job was pretty tough last year but seemed to get tougher this year with behavior. I have adopted some coping skills and strategies to use with students but it seems like I spend most of my time dealing with these behaviors then I do teaching my students what they need to know for their life. I have talked to other staff members and I have also thought of some reasons this may be happening on my own.
1. Absents of Parental Discipline- Are students allowed to go home and get away with whatever they want while parent do their own thing? Are kids allowed to bite, hit, and yell at their parents while at home? These questions are all coming up when we talk about student behavior and different reasons for it and ways that might help them and their family. When we have a family with a student who is having a really hard time in school, its our job to not only educate the students on appropriate behavior but we have to educate the parent on different strategies and ways to help them at home.
2. Higher number of students coming from broken families- It seems like there are more and more children coming from broken families. Sometimes its a nasty break-up between the parents and fighting over the kids. Sometimes the kids will go for a long time without seeing one parents or not see a parent at all. This can have a huge affect on how a child acts at school. this may be them crying out for help.
3. Classroom Management- Teachers seem to come out of college with more knowledge and better classroom management skills. This can make or break a class and even affect individual students more. If the teacher does not have a good handle on the class and have structure within the class with clear expectations, students will have a hard time acting appropriate and behaving in class.
4. School Wide Behavior Management- Do schools need to be required to adopt a behavior system and prove to the state that it will work for their school? Does schools need to work together more and see what is working and what is not working? Get rid of what not working and bring in something new? There are so many questions for this and I'm not sure there is one answer to all of the questions. In the school that I work in, we don't have any behavior management process or behavior plan for our students. Teachers do their own behavior management and the principals will get involved if they need to. Their strategy may be different every time or they may be too busy to where the student ends up waiting in the office looking at books. This is a huge area that a school needs to focus on and work together with their teachers to come to a solution that is best for all students.
These are all observations and nothing is a proven facts. They are all personal opinions.